Recently, I attended a pivotal meeting at a crazy busy uptown restaurant. The energy was high, but as soon as we sat down, the challenges became clear. Between other table conversations, clattering dishes, and seating arrangement, no one could hear anything!

Here’s what I’ve learned about choosing the right table and seat location to ensure your voice is heard over the noise.

Tips for Choosing the Right Table ➜

NOTE: arrive early so you have these following options.

• Select a Secluded Spot:
  •   ➤ Opt for booths or corner tables that minimize distractions.
• Consider Seating Arrangements:
  • ➤ For a group of 6 to 8, choose a circular table for a more inclusive atmosphere, promoting open dialogue. No one is at the head of the table.
  • ➤ For a party of 2, choose a square table and sit at a right angle (NOT across from each other). You’ll be closer together which will combat the noise factor and increase a sense of privacy amongst the restaurant din.
• Mind the Lighting:
  • ➤ Look for tables that provide adequate lighting, allowing for better visibility of expressions and gestures, which enhances engagement.
• Avoid High-Traffic Areas:
  • ➤ Steer clear of tables near the kitchen or restrooms to prevent interruptions.
• Request a Quieter Time:
  • ➤ When making your reservation, ask for a less busy time. Most restaurants will appreciate the consideration and try to accommodate.
• Think “The Godfather” movies:
  • ➤ Sit with your back against the wall where you can see the whole room. That’s the Power Place. Marlon Brando, Al Pacino etc. always sat in that spot. No one could shoot them from behind!

I’m in the “little things mean a lot” business.

By taking these factors into account, you can create a conducive environment for collaboration and ensure that your critical discussions are not lost in the noise. Your voice counts and your ideas deserve to be heard.

PS: These tips apply to all of your various times you dine out. That said, I thank my husband, family and friends for your patience. I’m picky!  A great location & where you sit in the restaurant make all the difference.

PS PS: Thanks to Judy for the clever title and for moving to a different table the other day!